Monday, March 23, 2026

Our Wedding Anniversary

 Hello, and thanks for stopping by
my blog today!

 In celebration of our wedding anniversary, which was March 18, Roger and I decided to get out our wedding clothes, 
and take some pictures of us in them now,
for fun and memories 





Our outfits were relatively simple for a wedding,
 as the ceremony was held on the beautiful beach at
 Cane Garden Bay, on the British Virgin Island of Tortola

My dress is not of the time, (1997) but is vintage,
from the late 30s or early 40's
    I  don't think it was meant to be a wedding dress
 I guess it could have been, during the war years
 Most likely, it was first worn by a young woman
 to a very special party or occasion,
 or possibly to her coming out celebration
Of course, I would love to be temporarily transported back
 to all of the previous times this dress was worn,
to learn all about it's previous life
before it came into my hands
I purchased it at an estate sale and at the time,
 had no idea it would become my wedding dress



Below, Roger is in light neutral colors in cotton and linen
It was hotter than usual for March in Tortola
A tie would have been suffocating,
and we certainly didn't want the groom
 to be passed out in a faint, 
so we left it behind
Boxy oversize cuts in general,
 as well as pleated trousers were in fashion 
at the time, and are pretty classic
 His look has come in and out of style several times 1997,
and if he wore it on the street today,
 no one would know it is nearly 30 years old



 

 I love all of the attention to detail and feminine touches,
and the overall modesty of my sweet dress 
It is made of ivory color rayon taffeta,
 which is an amazingly durable fabric
 Everything had to be carefully washed by hand
 after we got home, due to the hem of the dress and long veil 
literally being doused in salt sea water
Thankfully, everything came out
 looking as well as it did before




Hitched after six years of dating
(I had very cold feet, but made the right decision, at last!)






If you are married, did you wear
 a traditional wedding dress?

Do you have it packed away for sentimental reasons or have you sold or given it away, I wonder?
 
Recently, I watched a British reality TV show
 called Second Chance Dress
The premise is that a broker brings together previous brides
 who want to sell their wedding dresses,
 with brides-to-be who want to purchase
 a previously owned dress
 I am fascinated by this show,
 but I don't think I could ever part with my dress,
 it has so many lovely memories


My original hat and veil are pictured at the bottom of the post
They proved to be too cumbersome for this indoor photo
Here is the stand-in headpiece and veil




For jewelry I am wearing a 1950s vintage necklace
 of pink heart shapes, and a three strand creamy colored
pearl bracelet from the 1940's 
Also, current pink pave flower shaped post earrings 




Another accessory is this metallic gold bow belt




Neither of us kept track of our wedding shoes, though 
 Substituting a nude suede slip-on with a double tuxedo bow





 My original veil has three stepped layers of tulle
 and a long train
  I modified it by attaching it to a vintage 
1940's ivory straw cartwheel hat
  It was so much fun to play with on the breezy beach,
 it made some very fun photos



Hope you enjoyed our re-creation,
a few film pictures are at the bottom of the March 2024 post 
titled "Wedding Anniversary", if you are interested
in seeing them
 Have a good week!






















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